Summary: Men use women for sex, Women use sex to get what they want from men.
I didn't say this was how it was supposed to be, I simply stated this is how it is. It wasn't all ways so, nor was it ever God's intention that it ever be so. In the begining, God created Man. And He gave him two simple comandments: Do not eat of the tree of the knowlege of good and evil, and Be fruitful and multiply, fill the earth and subdue it. After some time, Adam realises he can't fulfill God's comand. He looks for a helpmate, and finds none. And he is sad. God says it is not good for the man to be alone, takes some tissue from his side, and creates for Adam a helpmate. (essentialy a female clone) God (the Father) then "gives away" this female (His daughter) to Adam. Adam declares, " This is bone of my bone, and flesh of my flesh." He names her woman and the two become one, the first marriage. Like all marriages, this one was consimated with sex. This first consimation was different in a way that non of us have ever known, nor will ever know. This one was totally and truly intimate. There was no shame, no secrets, no doubts, no fears, nothing withheld, nothing kept back, or denied, nothing private or pesonal, nothing selfish, and nothing prohibited. (no holes barred if you will) PURE LOVE and lovingly given, nothing taken, TRUE INTIMACY! We can't even fathom it. Saddly, this may have been the only time sex was the way it was meant to be, the only time it was ever making love. Soon after this came the fall.
Most have heard the story: Woman gets hungry. Woman talks to snake. Snake tells her God's a liar. Woman belives snake. Woman takes some fruit, gives some to her husband. They both eat it, they both fall. Disobey God, sin. Their eyes are openned, they realised they were naked. (Though they weren't really, they were nude as they always had been.) They were ashamed. Why? Because they realised they could use sex in a way it was not intended to be. So, they sewed fig leaves together to cover their shame. (I believe this was the woman's idea, since most men would go naked all the time if they could) Thus sex was forever tainted and became a selfish act.
Conclussion: Women are whores, men are rapist. This should not be. STOP USING SEX FOR SELFISH GAIN!